Character may be manifested in the great moments, but it is made in the small ones. – Phillips Brooks

A Poem * RESPONSIBILITY believes the impossibility while irresponsibility accepts the status quo. * RESPONSIBILITY is unwaveringly persistent while irresponsibility is trapped in apathy. * RESPONSIBILITY is always on time while irresponsibility is frequently late. * RESPONSIBILITY gives freedom while irresponsibility binds and limits. * RESPONSIBILITY develops commitment while irresponsibility bathes in convenience. * RESPONSIBILITY… Read more »

“Example is not the main thing in influencing others, it’s the only thing.” – Albert Schweitzer

My father-in-law is quite the handyman. He has every tool known to man and his garage is an impressive workshop. A few years ago he moved from Ohio to Colorado. In the process he completely dismantled his workshop and put it all into boxes. When he arrived at his new home he called me and… Read more »

“Good timber does not grow with ease. The stronger the wind the stronger the trees. ” Willard Marriott (1900-1985) Businessman, entrepreneur, founder of Marriott Hotels – Willard Marriot

Strategies for Managing Resistance Sally: Mom, can I go out and play after dinner? Mom: Not tonight, dear. Sally (whining): But whyyyyy? Mom: I don t want you to be too tired for school tomorrow, and besides, you were out the last three nights in a row. Sally (forcefully): That’s a stupid reason! Kathy, Ryan,… Read more »

“If you hear a voice within you say ‘you cannot paint,’ then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced. “ – Vincent Van Gogh

No matter how diligent you are in recognizing trigger causes, your child will still have meltdown moments. Or even meltdown days. The following tips can help you handle those inevitable bumps in the road. Be flexible and practice those solutions that seem to bring the best results. Offer Choices You may be able to avoid… Read more »

“[People] may be said to resemble not the bricks of which a house is built, but the pieces of a picture puzzle, each differing in shape, but matching the rest, and thus bringing out the picture.” – Felix Adler (1851-1933)

Here is a method that is guaranteed to eliminate whining in your family. It has worked with three of my kids, and it will work with yours. I have found it effective with any child, from age 1 to 20 (and beyond!). First, we must look at what whining is: It is your kid figuring… Read more »