If you want to know me,

listen to me.

If you want to strengthen me,

point out my gifts and talents.

If you want to motivate me,

find the incentives that drive me.

If you want to direct me,

persuade me with the benefits.

If you want to make me feel important,

invite me.

If you want me to live a life of purpose,

equip me with values.

If you want to protect me,

create safe boundaries around me.

If you want to encourage me,

be available when I am challenged.

If you want to energize me,

ignite me with your enthusiasm.

If you want to challenge me,

help me learn mistakes are okay.

If you want me to have an accurate self,

give me responsibilities.

If you want me to value others,

love me!